Sitting and talking with athletes vying for national team spots, so often I will hear something along the lines of, “I really don’t care if I make the team, because ___________________ .” I get it. Life will go on without a roster spot. There is life after sport. The best student-athletes are capable of being more than just athletes. But… please for performance’s sake… be straight with me.
Really, I get it. If you could care a little less, it would not hurt so bad if it does not work out. If you could care a bit less, standing in judgement of coaches, scouts, and relative strangers may be a bit less stressful. Sorry though… it’s likely you care.
Yup. There is more to you than just being and athlete. The world will keep in spinning if someone decides you do not fit their team plan. But you care and not achieving the ultimate sporting dream would be a bit of a heartbreaker.
It may also work out that you reach the top and that could be pretty cool.
It’s ok to care. The fun and fear of sports are that heartbreak could happen on the next play, game, or season. Accept it. Embrace it. Go play.